I usually try to suppress my persnickety Mr. Language Person tendencies, but here I go….
“Defuse” and “diffuse” are different words. They’ve got a lot in common, because they each have precise physical/real-world meanings, though they’re both more often used metaphorically.
“Defuse” originally referred to removing the fuse from a bomb, rendering it harmless. Metaphorically, it refers to taking a (metaphorically) explosive situation and rendering it harmless. “Diffuse” originally referred to the way liquids or gases mix and spread out through each other, or the way substances can pass through a separating membrane. Metaphorically, it refers to taking something (possibly dangerously?) concentrated and spreading it out, making it less concentrated.
What’s the right thing to do when the room is full of concentrated and potentially explosive tension? Well, you could defuse the tension (so it won’t explode) or you could diffuse the tension (like a bad smell, as a way to “clear the air”). So yeah – the meanings overlap a bit. And since they do, the meanings of “defuse” and “diffuse” are slowly diffusing across the thin semantic membrane that separates them, and soon there won’t be any difference at all. That won’t stop me from griping though.
Rein/reign: the former has to do with horses, the latter has to do with kings. Watch Slate get it wrong in this sentence: “Astronomers reigned in Pluto because scientists were discovering other heavenly bodies that could qualify as planets, too …”. These astronomers are powerful over our notions of Pluto, but they’re not actually building castles there yet.
Now that I’ve opened myself up, bring on the spelling and grammar flames. 🙂
My pet peeves:
– loose and lose
– effect and affect
– suprise instead of surprise
I think we’re fighting a losing battle on this one though, Tim. 🙂
I’m always suprised (sic) when people mistake flesh out and flush out.
(And for lots more, check out this fun list: http://www.wsu.edu/~brians/errors/errors.html)
Your vs You’re –> as in “Your going to have to do xxxxxx…”
Loosing battle for sure. But consider ordering this card in bulk from http://www.sunrisegreetings.com
NEVER STAND WHEN YOU CAN SIT
& NEVER SIT WHEN YOU CAN LAY DOWN
AND NEVER LAY DOWN
WHEN YOU CAN GET DOWN & PARTY
— HAPPY BIRTHDAY
Oh good, now I can look forward to even more goofy compositions from my students. Sheesh.
The BBC states that you can’t diffuse the tension, you must defuse it.
I agree that you can do both.
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/programmes/breakfast/3873555.stm